Men and women have different emotional needs. Men typically give in a relationship what men want, while women give what women want. Each mistakenly assumes that the other has the same needs and desires. As a result they both end up dissatisfied and resentful. The primary Love needs of women and men: women need to receive, caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, reassurance.
Men need to receive, trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, encouragement.
When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom, and that is what God wants.